"Maam, it's done.
He will be transferred to x dept by 1st of March."
Somehow.... deep inside me, I feel sad.
I dont understand at first and need to digest it and describe how actually I feel.
I should feel relieved, right? Managing a person out of my department and have him transferred properly.
But, how come I dont feel so good about it.
I didnt feel good when we have to issue 3rd warning letter, even the idea of warning letter make me nausea.
Found this on my facebook posting 14 feb 2014.
My leadership coach asked me the other day : joice, tell me, what had happened to you? You have inner peace. You are very much different from the last time we met. That maturity usually gained in some ten years. Tell me, because it must be tremendous, that you have changed,i tested you with scenarios and surprised to hear your responses. Tell me, what had happened? Silently inside my heart, Me: God have taught me lessons. So much, that i could not possible not to change :) - happy that someone recognized.
Pilgub rasa pilpres.
Ck ck ck.......
Bangsa gw pengen perang.
Pernah liat perang di luaran sana?
Kebanyakan karena perang saudara.... lalu mulai lah terjadi intervensi org luar. Lama2 jadi perang besar.
Stop it!
Kita terlalu besar dan harusnya sudah cukup dewasa untuk tidak gampang diprovokasi!!!!
Liani bercerita:
Temenku bilang "pilgub rasa pilpres" ya di Jakarta...
Aku pun jadi tersenyum...
Enak sekali kalau bicara sama orang netral...
Beda!
Membahas lah kita tentang bu Risma yg kesohor itu... aku bilang
"Nanti kalau pilgub di jawa timur, aku demo mendukung bolehin risma walaupun wanita, ke surabaya..... gimanah... boleh yaaa.....?"
Langsung lah kita ngakak dan disamber temenku.. "apa urusanmu bu ikut2 demo ke surabaya?????"
Karena gender saya perlu dibela, kalau ada pelecehan terhadapnya!
I asked my father one day.
How do you define a man is successful?
He is rich?
My dad answered: no. When that person doing best on what he has chosen. Remember: best effort.
Nefsong parents.
That is my created nick name for parents at my daughter's school, who are very agressive in competitiveness.
I dont know what they missed in their time in the past which cause them to act like that.
You know, ones who do not stay or form a queue line. All feels like would be beaten by others and their kids would miss the opportunity.
Ones who keep asking question to the instructor on how they are doi g if it is okay or not... during a parent child workshop in the middle of instructor explaining to the whole group on tje steps.
Parents who take over their supposedly called work of parent child pair, to finish the work successfully. There are ones who didnt even let the son or daughter to touch it from beginning hahahaha..
Parents who are in the science competition bringing the whole meth lab to the room, while their child starring blank at their supposedly called tandem presentation.
Parents who proudly with big smile walking out of school building with more than 1 throphy, and holding it high...
Parents who stand and sit in front of kids and other parents just so theu could take picture of their children performance
It really does make me wonder. Am i one of them?
